I come from a family that would get a family portrait just
about every year by a professional photographer. A few of them were in matching outfits and some of
them were in very nice natural settings.
I give a lot of credit to that photographer and his wife for their skill
in wrangling smiles out of all seven of us kids all at once.
My dad would order a large 2’ x 2’ photo print of our family
each year to put on the wall in the hall leading down to the master bedroom. (Okay, I don’t know the actual
dimensions, but I know they were large.)
The older we got, the more fun it
was to meander down the hall and look at all the family pictures to see how we
had changed over time. When we
brought dates home, they were similarly enthralled with the picture wall.
Cut to one year ago when I’m helping my mom go through all
her parents’ belongings at her parents’ house to try to decide what to
keep. Her mother (Barbara) is
still alive, but now staying with my mom, across the country from Barbara’s
house. Gma Barbara can’t care for
her house anymore and will likely never return to it. In the process of looking for letters, important documents,
home movies, photo albums, journals, and so on, my mother finds a large framed
black-and-white portrait photograph of her grandfather (my great-grandfather
McKnight). It’s 2’ x 1.5’. She decides to keep it.
So my professional organizer mind started thinking about
this picture of my GGpa McKnight and I realized what a hassle large family
portraits can become over time. Is
GGpa McKnight’s portrait something my mom wants to hang on the wall, or is his
picture going to go in a box somewhere?
And if on the wall, why such a large portrait for only one man? Where is the rest of the family? From a family history perspective, you
want a portrait in a small form so you can copy and share it. Large portraits in frames make it hard
to do that if they are larger than a normal-sized flatbed scanner.
Then I started thinking about all the large family portraits
on the picture wall. What happens
to them when my parents die? They
will probably be split among my siblings and I. But let’s face it; it’s going to be hard for us to choose
our favorite picture. And do
I imagine that we’ll settle perfectly on our own choice without some
squabbling? No, it will be a
difficult negotiation process.
Looking through the sequence makes them all the more interesting, so I
imagine that deep down we’d all like a copy of all the pictures, but none of us
will have room at home for them all. In this kind of situation, family portraits become
much more useful if they can be shrunk down to 8’’ x 10” size and put in page
protectors in a family history binder or photo album.
This is when I realized that if family portraits had been
printed that size (or smaller) in the first place, we would not have this issue
to begin with.
I have clients who store a stack of large framed family
portraits of older generations or divorced family because there is no room to
hang them on the wall or they are from too long ago, but they can’t get rid of
them because it is family history and they can’t find any smaller way to store
them.
So here’s my opinion of large framed family portraits:
·
They’re a waste of space
·
They make it hard to pass family pictures on to
the next generation because of the difficulty of storing them and sharing them.
·
They’re too big to scan in a normal scanner
In contrast, 8” x 10” family pictures are ideal.
·
They are big enough to frame and put on a wall.
·
They are small enough for the next generation to
remove from the frame and put in a scrapbook.
·
They are small enough to put in a flatbed
scanner, digitize, and share widely.
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